From "Marriage Index: New Jersey, 1680-1900" (FTM CD #240) by Broderbund Software in 1998: BEGIN Kishpaugh, Simeon Nixen, Ellen Apr 15, 1869 Sussex END From "The Myers Family History" by Timothy Francis Myers (0.307) in 2005: BEGIN Simeon and Mary Ellen Kishpaugh lived at 38 Water Street, Newton, New Jersey and were married by Justice of the Peace, Nathan Roe. It looks like Andrew was born about 3 years before they were married. The date given for their marriage is April 15, 1869 and Andrew was born January 4, 1866 according to several census records and John was born December 30, 1869. thhis [sic] was actually a fairly typical practice in those days. Either the official marriage took place after the fact or it was not published until sometime after it had occurred. Simeon and Mary Ellen were fairly well to do, their house was a large brick house with a wrought iron fence around the yard. Son, George Kishpaugh took care of both of his parents during their final illnesses and was supposed to be left their home. The care they each required during their illnesses used most of their fortune and since there was no will, the house had to be sold to finish paying the debts. Simeon died of cancer of the throat and Mary Ellen died of TB. We really have very little in the way of stories passed down about either of them. We do know that George Kishpaugh did not marry until the year after his mother died. Since he [sic] father was already ill, he cared for his mother duing her final year(s) of life. Older brother Andrew was still living but died himself as a relatively young man a few years later. He may also have been ill. In any case, George spent severl [sic] years of his adult life caring for them. As stated above, the illnesses used most of the family fortune. Their daughter Lena died of Hasty Consumption (TB) when she was about eighteen years old. END My note - With regard to the conflict stated in the first paragraph above, I think the reason for the lag between the actual marriage and filing of the paperwork (as well as for births, deaths, deeds, etc) was the difficulty of traveling (in that time period) to the location where the paperwork was filed with the State. Sometimes the filing happened long after the event actually took place. - MEL